I hear so many people who live in Los Angeles tell me that Los Angeles is the worst place to date if you're a woman over 35. It's the biggest city in the country and there's no one to meet if you're a woman over 35? What happens is that people will manifest the things on which they focus.So if women are focusing on disappointment, scarcity and failure in their dating life, then that's what they are going to experience in their dating life.Have you researched what things are going on in your area to which you could go? At the same time, though, be open to lots of possibilities. Try finding out about happy hours that are out there for people in their 40s. Try having lunch in areas where there are hospitals where you can meet doctors. Go to one and tell them you'd love to come to one of their parties when they have new car releases. Find at least ten places you can go or ten things you can do in your town other than what I've suggested. Following these five tips will get you well on your way to meeting lots of men.Have you truly done everything you possibly can do, because I seriously doubt that there are no men in their 40s that you can date. Go where lawyers are hanging out around lunchtime or during happy hours. There's networking events like Toastmasters where people will go and they will speak. I had a client one time who actually went to hospital and had lunch every single day because she wanted to meet a doctor. For all of the women who are over 35, there are tons of amazing and available men out there for you to meet. They were likely online on this or other sites years ago, and now may just feel it is beneath them or their new-found "status".Ask them if they volunteer anywhere like SPCA as you do, M, and where they met their wives/girlfriends..I just think that you've been frustrated, and you've let that get to you. Sure enough, after two and-a-half months she did meet a doctor. : Now that we've talked about your mindset, had you do some research and even had you make a list, the only thing left to do is to actually get yourself out there and start meeting people. It's all about pursuing what you want and taking the steps to get it.
Just like I tell singles of any age, your perfect person is not just going to show up at your doorstep one day with flowers and a bottle of wine in hand. So I want you to ask yourself if you've done enough. Have you gone on a great online dating site, wrote a really good profile and started contacting some men online? You will not only have more fun, but will also be most successful meeting people, when you are enjoying your life and creating good energy. Make A List: So, I'm challenging you right now to put together a list. You won't believe what is waiting out there for you!Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.Just wondering because I was using the pof mobile app while on break and two attending physicians saw me and said online dating was inappropriate and unprofessional , and could lead to awkward situations or open you up to trouble.So the first thing you need to do is to change your mindset. Take A Good Look At Yourself: I want to give you a little bit of a wake-up call.